I wonder if he imagines me still...
17 days since I said goodbye (again).
Once I managed 4 weeks without contacting him, but I'm not sure there is anything to go back to this time. Or, well, at least anything I would want to go back to.
But I want him to still want me, I wish he would be burned up thinking about me. Pumping one out in the shower where she will never know. Thinking of the things I did and things I said. He will be checking online every day to see if today will be the day I would break down and send an oh-so-innocent message enquiring how he is. He did that last time, well he said he did.
But he doesn't actually want to be with me. I am not sanctioned. I am only what he chose in a weak moment and not what he thinks society would choose. How come that they really do tinge the "fun" girls like me with suspicion, tar-splotched good time girls?
And, for fucks sake, how do the girls who are not seen as "fun" ever manage to catch a man to marry them? Do they go out and think, "Well fuck me, she's dull, I wanna spend the rest of my life feeding sperm down the shower plug hole, and occasionally, every couple of months, she might let me feed shit into her?"
And I? More hypocritcal, knowing all that shit, even questioning it like he doesn't, I still want the attention, I want to have the beam of interest focussed on me even as I decry the good time girl tag, the one I live up to so well. I want, oh I want. I want to be put first. But I don't want to put someone else first unless they do first.
I do hope his life is fucking dull right now. I hope he wants to tear his hair out with boredom; that will hurt as he shaves his hair so short, pulling it out would require individual hairs to be wrenched out with tweezers. I would volunteer to do it, except I don't trust me to do only that. He is only tempted with me if we are in the same geographical space. He can say no when I am hundreds of miles away. Well, he says "Yeah, but no" when we are hundreds of miles away. He says if I was there he couldn't resist. Great, yeah, I can resist anything but temptation too. Especially convenient, playing away from home temptation...
I fell for him because I thought we thought the same way, and I thought that he cared. It has taken me 16 months to realise I was little more than a fantasy that had the added advantage of coming true every once in a while. And really it was the fantasy and not the reality that sustained anything, for him. And I guess I have to think that might be true for me too...
yeah, but, he imagines me still. jacking off he imagines me. kneeling in the shower in front of him, water drops pearling on my skin and anticipating the pearls he wants to release over me.